バレンタインで告白失敗!?そんな人の為のイベントが韓国にある!

짜장면 by egg (Hong, Yun Seon)

バレンタインデーなんか嫌いだ!と言わないで。恋の季節にハッピーになれなかった人たちのためのイベントが韓国にはあります。日本でも流行らせてみては?

バレンタインで告白失敗!?そんな人の為のイベントが韓国にある!

 


「告白の日」なのは日本と韓国だけ!?


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マフモコスナップ MUFFMOCO SNAPSHOT by Norio NAKAYAMA

女性が男性に恋を告白する、というバレンタインデー文化は世界の中でも特殊なもの。なんと日本と韓国だけなのです。ちなみに、男性が女性にバレンタインデーのお返しをする日「ホワイトデー」も、日本と韓国にしかない習慣とのこと。

キリスト教文化圏の欧米が発祥のバレンタインデーは、もともと付き合っていたカップルのイベント&家族や友達と愛情を表現しあうイベントです。あとからバレンタインデー文化を導入したアジアの国々もほとんどが欧米式に「男性から女性へプレゼント」が主流だそうです。

 


その名も「ブラックデー」



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韓国ではバレンタインデーの2ヵ月後の4月14日を「블랙데이プレッテイ」または「ブラックデー」と呼びます。
バレンタインデーにチョコレートをもらえなかった男性や告白できなかった・したけどダメだった女性が黒い服を着て集まり、黒い食べ物を食べるのだそうです。

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짜장면 by egg (Hong, Yun Seon)

ブラックデーに食べるものとして最もポピュラーなのが、チャジャンミョン(韓国風ジャージャー麺)。麺と具材を黒味噌で炒めたものです。ブラックデーに限らず日常的に好まれており、韓国人の好きな麺類ナンバーワンと言われています。
「今年もチャジャンミョンを食べることになりそう」と言う言葉は「今年も4月14日までに恋人ができる見込みナシ」を意味するんだとか…

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Korea 2010: Mum’s Visit by Mark & Emma Hambleton & Dolan

しかし、ネガティブな行事でもないようです。4月14日にチャジャンミョンを食べている、すなわち「自分はいまフリーなんです!」というアピールになるからです。
男女混成のブラックデーは合コンにもなりますし、同じテーブルに集まったのではなくても、人が集まる場所でチャジャンミョンを食べていればお互いにフリーであることがわかります。韓流映画にありそうなシーンですね!

 


恋愛イベントが毎月ある!


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Yeouido Blossom Festival by hojusaram (ソウルの汝矣島(ヨイド)桜祭り)

韓国では毎月14日に何らかの恋愛イベントがあります。バレンタインデー・ホワイトデーでハッピーになれなくても、リベンジのチャンスは一年中あるってことですね!

「アジアのラテン民族」とも呼ばれる韓国人は恋愛にもポジティブ!その肉食ぶり、草食化したと言われる日本人にとって学ぶところあるかもしれません。

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